ASK THE GURLZ!!!

QUOTE (==Miz_KitA== @ Jun 10 2004, 12:33 PM)

QUOTE (coffee maker @ Jun 4 2004, 03:07 AM)

When a woman says "its okay" to her partner, sometimes she doesn't mean it. How can a man distinguish if she does or doesn't mean it?

i think it dependz on how much u know d gurl ur goin out wid.. like me kc.. most of d time im straight forward.. i tell him juz about everything.. so wen i say it'z ok den elaborate on it .. like "i understand wat u did blah blah blah".. den dat meanz it'z really ok..

but wen i say it'z ok period.. mejo delikado ka na nun.. mag isip isip ka na

QUOTE (==Miz_KitA== @ Jun 10 2004, 01:13 PM)

QUOTE (coffee maker @ Jun 4 2004, 03:21 AM)

Do you think "Dutch Treat" is a first-date taboo?

wer i live now.. Dutch Treat aint a taboo.. actually it'z d "IN" thing.. but personally for me.. if a guy askz me out on a date.. i expect him to pay for it.. otherwise.. dat wud b d first and last time he'll c me

deadman pa kunwari... obvious naman tambayan/hehehmn.gif

QUOTE (==Miz_KitA== @ Jun 10 2004, 03:26 PM)

QUOTE (Raider @ Jun 10 2004, 02:54 PM)

QUOTE (==Miz_KitA== @ Jun 10 2004, 11:12 AM)

QUOTE (Raider @ Jun 10 2004, 03:27 AM)

Bakit ang mga babae minsan mahirap maintindihan??

dat'z wer d mystery liez .. d ba mas may "thrill" yung ganon.. kc kung lagi lang tayo nagkakaintindihan magiging boring na.. d relationship tendz to stagnate.. so maghahanap na kayo ng ibang challenge

thanks..yeah..u r rite... pero how long kayong ndi magkakaintindihan?? parati bang dapat ganun para may challenge??

i guess d longer u stay together.. eventually u'll learn to understand each other.. to d point na kahit konting galaw lang nya.. alam mo na ibig nyang sabihin.. d na nya kelangan magsalita pa.. gaya nga ng sabi ng ibang mag-asawa.. habang tumatagal ang pagsasama nila .. para nalang daw clang magkapatid.. cguro kc dey know each other too well.. nawala na yung challenge.. nawala na rin yung spark .. pero ang importante magkasama pa rin cla.. and they feel comfortable living together

in d meantime.. alwayz remember dat "communication" is important in a relationship.. so kung meron kang d naiintindihan.. tanungin mo gf mo para d ka naguguluhan ok.. pero minsan kc cnasadya na rin naming guluhin kayo.. trip lang

ah ganon? tambayan/515.gif

at nagpapapansin pa... madalas ang reaction ay yun tipong nag-aantay lang ng sagot mula kay... hayyy pag-ibig nga naman. tambayan/birgits_giggle.gif

hmmnnn...it looks like the girls are taking time to answer the questions this time. tambayan/whistle.gif

QUOTE (Raider @ Jun 10 2004, 04:42 PM)

QUOTE (==Miz_KitA== @ Jun 10 2004, 03:26 PM)

QUOTE (Raider @ Jun 10 2004, 02:54 PM)

QUOTE (==Miz_KitA== @ Jun 10 2004, 11:12 AM)

QUOTE (Raider @ Jun 10 2004, 03:27 AM)

Bakit ang mga babae minsan mahirap maintindihan??

dat'z wer d mystery liez .. d ba mas may "thrill" yung ganon.. kc kung lagi lang tayo nagkakaintindihan magiging boring na.. d relationship tendz to stagnate.. so maghahanap na kayo ng ibang challenge

thanks..yeah..u r rite... pero how long kayong ndi magkakaintindihan?? parati bang dapat ganun para may challenge??

i guess d longer u stay together.. eventually u'll learn to understand each other.. to d point na kahit konting galaw lang nya.. alam mo na ibig nyang sabihin.. d na nya kelangan magsalita pa.. gaya nga ng sabi ng ibang mag-asawa.. habang tumatagal ang pagsasama nila .. para nalang daw clang magkapatid.. cguro kc dey know each other too well.. nawala na yung challenge.. nawala na rin yung spark .. pero ang importante magkasama pa rin cla.. and they feel comfortable living together

in d meantime.. alwayz remember dat "communication" is important in a relationship.. so kung meron kang d naiintindihan.. tanungin mo gf mo para d ka naguguluhan ok.. pero minsan kc cnasadya na rin naming guluhin kayo.. trip lang

korek ka ulit dyan....communication is the key...the bottom line is that no matter what...as long u r happy each thats all it matters diba.... tambayan/thmbup.gif

pero natawa ako dun nanadaya ba ang mga babae mang-gulo.??..hehhe

yah minsan .. i admit im guilty of dat.. but it'z simply to spice thingz up a bit.. mejo makulit kc ako eh pag nasa mood

QUOTE (walangkakwentakwenta @ Jun 10 2004, 06:12 PM)

Ba't ba mahilig kayo sa facial cream, cleansing cream and all those types of creams, up to the point na ang puputi ng mukha niyo pero kayumanggi pa rin ang balat? tambayan/hehehmn.gif

very sensitive kc ang skin sa face eh.. plus it getz d most exposure to heat.. dust.. etc.. dat'z y mas maraming creamz ang ginagamit for d face dan for d body.. and those creamz help maintain d beauty of our skin.. dapat lagi malinis.. dapat lagi inaalagaan

kung mas pumuputi nman yung face kesa sa body.. i think it'z bcuz of some whitening ingredientz of d cream na ginagamit.. or bka din yung foundation na ginamit sa face eh hindi nya ka skin tone so puputi talaga yung face.. ako kc i only use d basic beauty productz like cleansing, toning and moisturizing.. yun lang.. so far nman mah face and body r d same colour

QUOTE (walangkakwentakwenta @ Jun 10 2004, 06:24 PM)

QUOTE (==Miz_KitA== @ Jun 10 2004, 12:51 PM)

i think d biggest misconception wud b...

"that women lack the basic human intellectual qualities to be equal to men"

That brings me to another question:

Why is there in women's thoughts about double standards in equality of sexes?

You want to be treated equal in terms of salary, intelligence, job performance, job position, power in politics and stuffs....... but on a date, you want men to open the door for you, let you sit in the car first, pull the chair for you and all those chivalrous acts. tambayan/4_6_2v.gif

based on d 2 examplez dat u cited.. i don't think it cud b considered as double standard in equality of sexes on d women'z perspective.. bcuz both examplez wer actually standardz set by MEN:

On ur first example bout equal treatment.. History showz dat men dictated civilization and put women on an inferior position.. even lawz wer masculine bcuz d lawmakerz wer all men.. it'z like women wer juz placed in a corner and wer told dat these r d only rolez u have to play.. der was even another misconception dat "women who became educated or pursue careers permanently sacrifice their chances to have a family in the process"... it was tailored precisely to discourage women from seeking independence.. these misconceptionz r d onez women have been fighting for all dis yearz.. boiling down to one thing "EQUAL RIGHTZ.. EQUAL OPPORTUNITY".. and i think we deserve it

On ur second example bout chivalry actz on datez.. women didn't ask for it.. in d mid 1800s Men decided to adopt a "Gentleman's Etiquette" for d purpose of creating a so-called "polite society".. and adhering to such etiquette wud make them noble and respectable supreme beingz .. i juz don't understand y men create such rulez and now they ask women to explain "why"

QUOTE (coffee maker @ Jun 11 2004, 02:10 AM)

QUOTE (==Miz_KitA== @ Jun 10 2004, 11:03 AM)

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another Q for the gurls: tambayan/201.gif

kung nalalakad kayo ng bf nyo tapos may makasalubong kayong sexy at lumingon ang bf nyo, magseselos ba kayo?

no way.. ba't naman ako magseselos?� .. pero i'll make sure na itutulak ko cya sa madadaanan naming poste para mauntog� .. eh kc nman ba't titingin pa cya sa ibang sexy eh sexy na nga kasama nya�

I mean, lumingon lang naman ah tambayan/4_6_2v.gif

di naman dapat pagselosan tambayan/rolleyes2.gif

oo nga dba� .. gigising lang nman cya sa ospital.. jk

nakow kakatakot naman palang kasama ang babaing yan... super selosa! tambayan/schmoll.gif

selosa??.. ano yun??.. dat word doesn't even exist in mah vocab

QUOTE (coffee maker @ Jun 11 2004, 02:13 AM)

QUOTE (==Miz_KitA== @ Jun 10 2004, 11:12 AM)

QUOTE (Raider @ Jun 10 2004, 03:27 AM)

Bakit ang mga babae minsan mahirap maintindihan??

dat'z wer d mystery liez .. d ba mas may "thrill" yung ganon.. kc kung lagi lang tayo nagkakaintindihan magiging boring na.. d relationship tendz to stagnate.. so maghahanap na kayo ng ibang challenge

so u do prefer dat "trill" thing kahit laging may away kesa "boring" pero magkasundo naman? tambayan/schmoll.gif

alam mo anything dat'z "sobra" is bad.. so if u keep doin sumthin juz for d "thrill" of it.. d maganda yun.. if it'z so boring nman.. d rin maganda.. so dapat may balance para mas healthy ang relationship dba

QUOTE (==Miz_KitA== @ Jun 11 2004, 01:13 PM)

QUOTE (Raider @ Jun 10 2004, 04:42 PM)

QUOTE (==Miz_KitA== @ Jun 10 2004, 03:26 PM)

QUOTE (Raider @ Jun 10 2004, 02:54 PM)

QUOTE (==Miz_KitA== @ Jun 10 2004, 11:12 AM)

QUOTE (Raider @ Jun 10 2004, 03:27 AM)

Bakit ang mga babae minsan mahirap maintindihan??

dat'z wer d mystery liez .. d ba mas may "thrill" yung ganon.. kc kung lagi lang tayo nagkakaintindihan magiging boring na.. d relationship tendz to stagnate.. so maghahanap na kayo ng ibang challenge

thanks..yeah..u r rite... pero how long kayong ndi magkakaintindihan?? parati bang dapat ganun para may challenge??

i guess d longer u stay together.. eventually u'll learn to understand each other.. to d point na kahit konting galaw lang nya.. alam mo na ibig nyang sabihin.. d na nya kelangan magsalita pa.. gaya nga ng sabi ng ibang mag-asawa.. habang tumatagal ang pagsasama nila .. para nalang daw clang magkapatid.. cguro kc dey know each other too well.. nawala na yung challenge.. nawala na rin yung spark .. pero ang importante magkasama pa rin cla.. and they feel comfortable living together

in d meantime.. alwayz remember dat "communication" is important in a relationship.. so kung meron kang d naiintindihan.. tanungin mo gf mo para d ka naguguluhan ok.. pero minsan kc cnasadya na rin naming guluhin kayo.. trip lang

korek ka ulit dyan....communication is the key...the bottom line is that no matter what...as long u r happy each thats all it matters diba.... tambayan/thmbup.gif

pero natawa ako dun nanadaya ba ang mga babae mang-gulo.??..hehhe

yah minsan .. i admit im guilty of dat.. but it'z simply to spice thingz up a bit.. mejo makulit kc ako eh pag nasa mood

siguro lumalambing ka lang kaya minsan kinukulit mo cya...diba.. tambayan/birgits_giggle.gif

Bakit ang mga babae matagal mag-shopping kaysa sa mga lalaki??

QUOTE (coffee maker @ Jun 11 2004, 02:37 AM)

QUOTE (==Miz_KitA== @ Jun 10 2004, 12:51 PM)

QUOTE (coffee maker @ Jun 4 2004, 03:13 AM)

What do you think is the biggest misconception of men about women?

i think d biggest misconception wud b...

"that women lack the basic human intellectual qualities to be equal to men"

dat is so ridiculous and absurd .. but it has been a misconception for a long time.. dat women shud b pure, submissive, decorous and rely on men for instruction and guidance to preserve their virtue

i know timez have changed.. but some men still think dat way

Man sayz to God: "God, why did u make woman beautiful?"
God sayz: "So u would love her"
"But God", the man sayz, "why did u make her so dumb?"
God sayz, "So she would love u"

tambayan/rolleyes2.gif

hahahahaha.... natawa ako sa joke

*just wondering... babae na naman ang presidente ng Pinas

oo nga.. i said nman timez r changing d ba.. i know dat some men have open mindz and accept women as their equal.. but der r still otherz who don't.. yun lang nman ang point ko.. actually i'll celebrate dat time wen USA will have der very first lady president.. sana buhay pa ako nun

QUOTE (Raider @ Jun 11 2004, 02:21 PM)

QUOTE (==Miz_KitA== @ Jun 11 2004, 01:13 PM)

QUOTE (Raider @ Jun 10 2004, 04:42 PM)

QUOTE (==Miz_KitA== @ Jun 10 2004, 03:26 PM)

QUOTE (Raider @ Jun 10 2004, 02:54 PM)

QUOTE (==Miz_KitA== @ Jun 10 2004, 11:12 AM)

QUOTE (Raider @ Jun 10 2004, 03:27 AM)

Bakit ang mga babae minsan mahirap maintindihan??

dat'z wer d mystery liez .. d ba mas may "thrill" yung ganon.. kc kung lagi lang tayo nagkakaintindihan magiging boring na.. d relationship tendz to stagnate.. so maghahanap na kayo ng ibang challenge

thanks..yeah..u r rite... pero how long kayong ndi magkakaintindihan?? parati bang dapat ganun para may challenge??

i guess d longer u stay together.. eventually u'll learn to understand each other.. to d point na kahit konting galaw lang nya.. alam mo na ibig nyang sabihin.. d na nya kelangan magsalita pa.. gaya nga ng sabi ng ibang mag-asawa.. habang tumatagal ang pagsasama nila .. para nalang daw clang magkapatid.. cguro kc dey know each other too well.. nawala na yung challenge.. nawala na rin yung spark .. pero ang importante magkasama pa rin cla.. and they feel comfortable living together

in d meantime.. alwayz remember dat "communication" is important in a relationship.. so kung meron kang d naiintindihan.. tanungin mo gf mo para d ka naguguluhan ok.. pero minsan kc cnasadya na rin naming guluhin kayo.. trip lang

korek ka ulit dyan....communication is the key...the bottom line is that no matter what...as long u r happy each thats all it matters diba.... tambayan/thmbup.gif

pero natawa ako dun nanadaya ba ang mga babae mang-gulo.??..hehhe

yah minsan .. i admit im guilty of dat.. but it'z simply to spice thingz up a bit.. mejo makulit kc ako eh pag nasa mood

siguro lumalambing ka lang kaya minsan kinukulit mo cya...diba.. tambayan/birgits_giggle.gif

ur absolutely right!!! .. sarap pa makita yung reaction ng guy.. deep inside nakakatuwa