pag nanliligaw ayoko ng loveletter gusto ko tapatan/harapan sasabihin sa akin ang nararamdaman

but if he's already mine, i find it so romantic... pag slip sya kahit simple note lang saying "take care" "i love you" "i miss you"... mga gnon na notes na kakakilig kasi eh...
senti pa naman ako, tinatago ko binibigay sa akin ng love ko kahit na chocolate wrapper, rose petals, cards, at kung anik-anik pang bagay na binigay sa akin

Gurls, Bat kayo ganyan?????

Anong security pa ba ang hihahanap nyo sa isang guy????

agree kaya lang...

simple lang... kung mahal nya ko talaga, pakasalan nya ko.
di ako pang display lang, pang habambuhay ako

and this i promise... he wont regret it

and please guys dont court a gurl just because you have to, or you just feel like courting her... court a girl because you want to marry her, see her as a future wife... that's the best "security" you can offer

thanks for the output Storm

Is there a right time for that? Makakapaghintay ba kayo?

Security ba'ng matatawag ang kasal (marriage)? Bakit maraming naghihiwalay? Bakit madami ring kasal nga pero di naman unuuwian ng mister nila?

sa'kin oo...security un...in that way lang nila mapapatunayan na mahal ka nga nila.
kc they choose the wrong partner..un ang disisyon na padalos-dalos. if you choose the right one hindi siguro mangyari na hindi ka uwian ng partner mo.

dapat wag padalos dalos?

kaya makapahihintay kayo ng right time na magpakasal?

In a way, marriage nga gaya ng sabi nung mga unang nag-post eh isang security lock.


Makakapaghintay naman ang babae eh. Basta you don't renege on your promise AND you make time to communicate with her everyday and find out what she's been doing and tell her your plans for her. Pag alam nyang may plans ka for her (yung lifelong plans) eh mapapacify yun.


Maraming nagpapakasal ngayon kasi nabubuntis.. yun naman mostly nagpapakasal ngayon eh. And that's one heck of a very bad & wrong reason for getting married.

Mark, makakapaghintay ang babae kung alam nya yung mga plano mo para sa kanya at kung alam nyang ikaw din nag-iisip ng FUTURE na kasama sya. Always let her know how u feel about her and what your intentions are for her. Yun naman basically ang gusto ng babae.

Ang galing nga ng guy friend ko eh... ginawa nya yan sa esmi nya.

ganung katagal na bang naghihintay? baka naman kasi mga 10 years nang naghihintay eh wala pa ring plano...eh maiinis nga yun?

I like receiving letters, whether electronic or handwritten.

It would be really nice if he spent the time and the effort to write me a handwritten letter because that's something people rarely do these days eh.. tapos busy pa sya and all (lahat na lang busy) so if he gives me a handwritten letter, sobrang mata-touch ako nun... at kikiligin.

I'd like to see his handwriting.. kahit once lang hehe.

Ay ang tanong pala what I would prefer...

I prefer handwritten letters written on scratch papers even... I'm a recycler and I love paper products so kahit scratch papers I use when I write and I'd like it if he did that.

Isn't the idea of courting and then relationships is about knowing each other how compatible you are to be a lifetime partner?

I personally think that when you court a girl because you want to marry her, there's no point of having a relationship.....why not get married directly? and that I believe would be disastrous if you aren't compatible....therefore, in that sense, I believe, compatability is better than security...What do you think girls?

Actually, I dunno, I may be wrong, just butting in, nagpapansin....