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==Miz_KitA==- 06-21-2004
QUOTE (Mich @ Jun 21 2004, 04:02 AM)
<span style='font-size:14pt;line-height:100%'>In our modern times, do you still prefer to receive love letters written on a scented stationery, or you find it "baduy" since text messaging is now widely used?</span>

actually ok na rin nman yung txt or email.. it'z faster tambayan/naughty.gif

pero iba pa rin yung handwritten letterz.. mas sweet and mas nakakakiligz.. kc he spent more time and effort to prepare dat letter.. and i appreciate dat.. makez me feel so so so special.. esp kung nakasulat dun r his own wordz coming from d heart.. ayoko nung kinokopya kung san san.. bawas pogi pointz yun tambayan/birgits_giggle.gif


==Miz_KitA==- 06-21-2004
QUOTE (Mark @ Jun 21 2004, 06:22 AM)
Gurls, Bat kayo ganyan????? sad.gif tambayan/bawl.gif

u mean ba't ang cute cute namin? tambayan/smiley_759.gif tambayan/birgits_giggle.gif

Raider- 06-21-2004
QUOTE (==Miz_KitA== @ Jun 21 2004, 03:06 PM)
QUOTE (Mark @ Jun 21 2004, 06:22 AM)
Gurls, Bat kayo ganyan????? sad.gif  tambayan/bawl.gif

u mean ba't ang cute cute namin? tambayan/smiley_759.gif tambayan/birgits_giggle.gif

oo Mz_kita bakit ang cute ninyo.... smile.gif

storm- 06-21-2004
QUOTE (walangkakwentakwenta @ Jun 21 2004, 08:04 PM)
QUOTE (storm @ Jun 21 2004, 07:10 AM)
and please guys dont court a gurl just because you have to, or you just feel like courting her... court a girl because you want to marry her, see her as a future wife... that's the best "security" you can offer smile.gif

Isn't the idea of courting and then relationships is about knowing each other how compatible you are to be a lifetime partner?

I personally think that when you court a girl because you want to marry her, there's no point of having a relationship.....why not get married directly? and that I believe would be disastrous if you aren't compatible....therefore, in that sense, I believe, compatability is better than security...What do you think girls?

Actually, I dunno, I may be wrong, just butting in, nagpapansin.... tambayan/dontknow.gif

ikaw talaka tanong nyo kami gurls tapos kontra nyo, pano nyo kami maiintindihan? tambayan/4_6_2v.gif

ang ibig ko lang pong sabihin sa statement ko na yan ay:
i still believed that there is this "courtship" thing because there is still love exist. so why court a girl that is not a wife material to you? of course you court a girl, spend a lot of money and time inde para lang mawala sya in the end di ba? kaya for me mas ok siguro kung sa simula pa lang, liligawan mo sya at susuyuin kasi may "future" ka ng nakikita rather than have a gf just for the sake of having it? well, it's just my point of view tambayan/dontknow.gif
smile.gif

storm- 06-21-2004
QUOTE (Mark @ Jun 21 2004, 03:30 PM)
QUOTE (storm @ Jun 21 2004, 07:10 AM)
QUOTE (Mark @ Jun 21 2004, 02:23 PM)
Anong security pa ba ang hihahanap nyo sa isang guy???? tambayan/schmoll.gif  sad.gif  tambayan/bawl.gif

simple lang... kung mahal nya ko talaga, pakasalan nya ko.
di ako pang display lang, pang habambuhay ako smile.gif

and this i promise... he wont regret it smile.gif

and please guys dont court a gurl just because you have to, or you just feel like courting her... court a girl because you want to marry her, see her as a future wife... that's the best "security" you can offer smile.gif

thanks for the output Storm smile.gif

Is there a right time for that? Makakapaghintay ba kayo? unsure.gif

makapaghihintay naman ako mark eh lalo na mahal ko ang guy... at alam kong may future plan sya, it's just that hindi pa tlaga pede sa ngayun, which is i perfectly understood dahil pinapaintindi nya.
i have a friend, 10 years pinag-antay, mukha talagang walang plano ang guy, she get tired of him, iniwan ang guy. nakakasawa din naman syempre. siguro naman lets say after 5 years of being together, i proved to him na i'm worth a marriage contract smile.gif

storm- 06-21-2004
QUOTE (Mark @ Jun 21 2004, 02:22 PM)
Gurls, Bat kayo ganyan????? sad.gif tambayan/bawl.gif

baka sakaling maintindihan mo ang babae

She's Always A Woman To Me

She can kill with a smile, she can wound with her eyes.
And she can ruin your faith with her casual lies.
And she only reveals what she wants you to see.
She hides like a child, but she's always a woman to me.
She can lead you to love, she can take you or leave you.
She can ask for the truth but she'll never believe.
And she'll take what you'll give her as long as it's free.
Yeah, she steals like a thief, but she's always a woman to me.
Oooh, she takes care of herself.
She can wait if she wants, she's ahead of her time.
Oooooh, and she never gives out, and she never gives in,she just changes her mind.
And she'll promise you more than the Garden of Eden.
And she'll carelesly cut you and laugh while you're bleeding.
But she'll bring out the best and the worst you can be.Blame it all on yourself, cause she's always a woman to me.
Hmmmmmm Mmmmmm Hmmmmm Mmmmmm
Oooh, she takes care of herself.
She can wait if she wants, she's ahead of her time.
Oooooh, and she never gives out, and she never gives in,she just changes her mind.
She is frequently kind and she's suddenly cruel.
But she can do as she pleases, she's nobody's fool.
And she can't be convicted, she's earned her degree.
And the most she will do is throw shadows at you,but she's always a woman to me.
Hmmmmmm Mmmmmm Hmmmmm Mmmmmm


storm- 06-21-2004
QUOTE (coffee maker @ Jun 21 2004, 03:39 PM)
QUOTE (storm @ Jun 21 2004, 03:10 PM)
QUOTE (Mark @ Jun 21 2004, 02:23 PM)
Anong security pa ba ang hihahanap nyo sa isang guy???? tambayan/schmoll.gif  sad.gif  tambayan/bawl.gif

simple lang... kung mahal nya ko talaga, pakasalan nya ko.
di ako pang display lang, pang habambuhay ako smile.gif

and this i promise... he wont regret it smile.gif

and please guys dont court a gurl just because you have to, or you just feel like courting her... court a girl because you want to marry her, see her as a future wife... that's the best "security" you can offer smile.gif

Security ba'ng matatawag ang kasal (marriage)? Bakit maraming naghihiwalay? Bakit madami ring kasal nga pero di naman unuuwian ng mister nila? smile.gif

i still value the sacredness of the holy matrimony (marriage)
security pa din ang marriage agree ka man or hinde tambayan/hehehmn.gif
kala ko ba optimistics ka... positive thinker? instead of thinking about nega things, make the best out of ur relationship, andami ng failed marriages, dadamay ka pa ba? syempre kaya mo niligawan dahil mahal mo, at dahil mahal mo dapat isipin mo na pakakasalan mo para makasama hambambuhay.

kape, iyan lang ang pinakamagandang regalo na ibibigay sa akin ng aking BF, becoz kung mahal nya ko talaga walang duda na ibibigay nya sa akin ang apelyido nya na syempre gusto ko din naman magamit ng legal smile.gif

Jennifer- 06-22-2004
QUOTE (storm @ Jun 22 2004, 10:52 AM)
QUOTE (walangkakwentakwenta @ Jun 21 2004, 08:04 PM)

Isn't the idea of courting and then relationships is about knowing each other how compatible you are to be a lifetime partner?

I personally think that when you court a girl because you want to marry her, there's no point of having a relationship.....why not get married directly? and that I believe would be disastrous if you aren't compatible....therefore, in that sense, I believe, compatability is better than security...What do you think girls?

Actually, I dunno, I may be wrong, just butting in, nagpapansin.... tambayan/dontknow.gif

ikaw talaka tanong nyo kami gurls tapos kontra nyo, pano nyo kami maiintindihan? tambayan/4_6_2v.gif

ang ibig ko lang pong sabihin sa statement ko na yan ay:
i still believed that there is this "courtship" thing because there is still love exist. so why court a girl that is not a wife material to you? of course you court a girl, spend a lot of money and time inde para lang mawala sya in the end di ba? kaya for me mas ok siguro kung sa simula pa lang, liligawan mo sya at susuyuin kasi may "future" ka ng nakikita rather than have a gf just for the sake of having it? well, it's just my point of view tambayan/dontknow.gif
smile.gif

Agree ako with Storm.

Being in a relationship doesn't mean "testing" whether you are compatible with each other. That's just a part of it. But that's not what you would necessarily call it, testing, I mean. Gaya ng sabi ni Storm, you court a woman because you intend to have a "future" with her.

Sa lahat naman ng bagay diba may levels... sa relationship din meron. The idea is that from being gf/bf you progress to another level. Kung sa umpisa pa lang wala kang iniisip na progress, you better not get into a relationship. That's what it is about. Sa lahat naman ng gagawin may goal in mind ka diba... that falls true for relationships too.

walangkakwentakwenta- 06-22-2004
QUOTE (storm @ Jun 22 2004, 02:52 AM)
ikaw talaka tanong nyo kami gurls tapos kontra nyo, pano nyo kami maiintindihan? tambayan/4_6_2v.gif
hehehe...stormy, hindi pangontra yon, nagpapansin lang. biggrin.gif

OK, seryoso ng konti........

QUOTE (storm @ Jun 22 2004, 02:52 AM)
so why court a girl that is not a wife material to you? of course you court a girl, spend a lot of money and time inde para lang mawala sya in the end di ba?

Ewan ko, maybe iba ako or I'm a player or something, but then when I court a girl, ala sa isipan ko na siya ay isang wife material...I courted here because at that time, I was attracted and blinded by everything she had or did and wanted to have some fun with her, physically emotionally and mentally...ewan ko, pero kung pag-aasawa kasi para sa akin, it's a sacred thing, so a lot of thinking is needed for me.

ahhhh basta, my mind is telling me I have my point but my conscience is dictating me, you girls are right. biggrin.gif

ngayon ang tanong:
Ba't kayong mga babae, ang ganda niyong tingnan pag natulog?

Mark- 06-22-2004
tambayan/clapping.gif tambayan/thmbup.gif ang gagaling nyo, ala akong masabi tambayan/groots.gif




storm- 06-22-2004
QUOTE (walangkakwentakwenta @ Jun 22 2004, 03:16 PM)
ngayon ang tanong:
Ba't kayong mga babae, ang ganda niyong tingnan pag natulog?

talaga? uyyy tambayan/Thanx.gif
ewan ko. siguro dahil inde kami open-mouth matulog hehe
saka di kami naghihilik... which ang sound lang na ginagawa namin ay breathing... which is so cute (daw) i think... parang baby na natutulog, parang anghel smile.gif

KAPE- 06-22-2004
QUOTE (storm @ Jun 22 2004, 11:01 AM)
QUOTE (Mark @ Jun 21 2004, 02:22 PM)
Gurls, Bat kayo ganyan????? sad.gif  tambayan/bawl.gif

baka sakaling maintindihan mo ang babae

She's Always A Woman To Me

She can kill with a smile, she can wound with her eyes.
And she can ruin your faith with her casual lies.
And she only reveals what she wants you to see.
She hides like a child, but she's always a woman to me.
She can lead you to love, she can take you or leave you.
She can ask for the truth but she'll never believe.
And she'll take what you'll give her as long as it's free.
Yeah, she steals like a thief, but she's always a woman to me.
Oooh, she takes care of herself.
She can wait if she wants, she's ahead of her time.
Oooooh, and she never gives out, and she never gives in,she just changes her mind.
And she'll promise you more than the Garden of Eden.
And she'll carelesly cut you and laugh while you're bleeding.
But she'll bring out the best and the worst you can be.Blame it all on yourself, cause she's always a woman to me.
Hmmmmmm Mmmmmm Hmmmmm Mmmmmm
Oooh, she takes care of herself.
She can wait if she wants, she's ahead of her time.
Oooooh, and she never gives out, and she never gives in,she just changes her mind.
She is frequently kind and she's suddenly cruel.
But she can do as she pleases, she's nobody's fool.
And she can't be convicted, she's earned her degree.
And the most she will do is throw shadows at you,but she's always a woman to me.
Hmmmmmm Mmmmmm Hmmmmm Mmmmmm

tambayan/groots.gif

Jennifer- 06-22-2004
QUOTE (walangkakwentakwenta @ Jun 22 2004, 03:16 PM)

ngayon ang tanong:
Ba't kayong mga babae, ang ganda niyong tingnan pag natulog?

Wow buti pa sila maganda tignan pag natutulog tambayan/mf_laughbounce2.gif

hello- 06-22-2004
QUOTE (Mich @ Jun 20 2004, 06:02 PM)
<span style='font-size:14pt;line-height:100%'>In our modern times, do you still prefer to receive love letters written on a scented stationery, or you find it "baduy" since text messaging is now widely used?</span>

kahit ano puede pero mas sweet parin para sa akin syempre yung personalized lab letter tambayan/smiley_759.gif pinaghirapang isulat.. tsaka maitatago mo ito hangga't gusto mo... tambayan/05.gif pede mong balik balikan ang nakaraan..naks tambayan/birgits_giggle.gif

==Miz_KitA==- 06-22-2004
QUOTE (walangkakwentakwenta @ Jun 22 2004, 07:16 AM)
ngayon ang tanong:
Ba't kayong mga babae, ang ganda niyong tingnan pag natulog?


ganda nman kami whether tulog or gising eh tambayan/naughty.gif tambayan/05.gif tambayan/birgits_giggle.gif

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