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madaku_mobutu- 10-24-2006
Atheists still require the protection of their universal human rights anywhere, as do Catholics in an Islamic theocracy, dark-skinned Afros in an apartheid state, Jews in Nazi Germany & Muslims in a democracy.

If they believe in divorce, then let the State recognize it. If the Catholics don't, then let the State protect that option as well. If Catholics resort to divorce, then let them leave the Church's fold.

My conentionis: just because the Catholic majority doesn't believe in divorce doesn't mean the State must follow & neglect the right to the option for the minority. If because it has been legalized by the State, there is a mass departure of Catholics from the fold, then blame the Church's leadership, not the State which is accountable to all, not the majority.

That's all the more that the State must be secular & impartial to religion or the absence thereof.

DON_JUAN- 01-30-2007
Depende sa reason ng Divorce... Kung dahil sinasaktan ang asawa at pinapatay ang kamag anak... Pakulong mo na lang ang iyong asawa... Pero as christians, there is a commandment that we need to love and respect our spouses as we love ourself... Pero kung ang reason ay dahil di mo na mahal at gusto mong mag asawa ng iba... you are committing adultery... Sometimes Divorce are excuses to avoid the penalty. Pero kung tutuusin applicable lang ang Divorce sa mga hindi naniniwala sa Dyos. Pero sa mga Naniniwala sa utos ng Dios, Walang divorce sa kanila... Kaya kung kayo ay mag aasawa.. piliin mabuti ang inyong mapapangasawa base sa kanyang paniniwala at tunay na pag mamahal sa yo... Kung sa puson ka lang nag base... malamang impyerno ang magiging buhay mo sa asawa mo... Manalangin po tayo

jeli71- 06-10-2007
Papayag lang ako na may divorce sa atin, kung sasagutin ng gobyerno ng Pilipinas ang sustento sa mga bata at pagpapa-aral. Dahil ayaw ko na mangyari ang iiwanan ka ng walong anak or sampo, tapos wala ka pang trabaho, paano mo bubuhayan mag isa ang karami-raming anak? pagkatapos nalusyang beauty mo sa kaa-anak at pinalitan ka ng iba, ng asawa mo ng mas seksi at bata pa. (Hirap kasi sa atin ay napaka uso ng maraming anak kahit wala ng makain). sad.gif

chielyss- 06-22-2007
In my own opinion.It's not necessary if unless you found out that you married a crazy person or acting crazy.It's better SEPARATION than DIVORCE.

madaku_mobutu- 08-09-2007
QUOTE (jeli71 @ June 10, 2007 02:33 pm)
Papayag lang ako na may divorce sa atin, kung sasagutin ng gobyerno ng Pilipinas ang sustento sa mga bata at pagpapa-aral. Dahil ayaw ko na mangyari ang iiwanan ka ng walong anak or sampo, tapos wala ka pang trabaho, paano mo bubuhayan mag isa ang karami-raming anak? pagkatapos nalusyang beauty mo sa kaa-anak at pinalitan ka ng iba, ng asawa mo ng mas seksi at bata pa. (Hirap kasi sa atin ay napaka uso ng maraming anak kahit wala ng makain). sad.gif

Totoo yan ... Pero di palagi ang government ang first line of defense. Parents pa rin. That's why me alimony kung me divorce. With great sex comes great responsibility. Galing yan sa Saksi ni Spiderman. tambayan/cheers1.gif

broken_heart_forever_08- 08-10-2007
ok lang skin... kasi ang hirap naman talaga pakisamahan yung taong di mo na mahal. ganun yun dba? tambayan/madslap.gif
alangan namang magsama kayo kahit wala kayong ginawa araw araw kundi ang magbugbugan... biggrin.gif

semper meus dominus jesu- 02-29-2008
QUOTE (DON_JUAN @ January 31, 2007 08:24 am)
Depende sa reason ng Divorce... Kung dahil sinasaktan ang asawa at pinapatay ang kamag anak... Pakulong mo na lang ang iyong asawa... Pero as christians, there is a commandment that we need to love and respect our spouses as we love ourself... Pero kung ang reason ay dahil di mo na mahal at gusto mong mag asawa ng iba... you are committing adultery... Sometimes Divorce are excuses to avoid the penalty. Pero kung tutuusin applicable lang ang Divorce sa mga hindi naniniwala sa Dyos. Pero sa mga Naniniwala sa utos ng Dios, Walang divorce sa kanila... Kaya kung kayo ay mag aasawa.. piliin mabuti ang inyong mapapangasawa base sa kanyang paniniwala at tunay na pag mamahal sa yo... Kung sa puson ka lang nag base... malamang impyerno ang magiging buhay mo sa asawa mo... Manalangin po tayo

Mismo ...

alam mo ba na hindi nagkakasal ang pari kung ang dahilan lang eh nabuntis ang babae ..........

(except if the couple really show determination that they love each other ... which is very hard to detect for fakers ... hehehe)

risen- 05-23-2008
Being a Christian, i don't believe in divorce. But if the state wants it then let the people who agree used it, its there choice. Divorce is not good to a family especially to the children involve. It is a selfish and prideful act that ruins the foundation of the church. Selfish because they are only thinking of what they will gain(perhaps another marraige) not considering the effects to children, socially and psychologically; pride because they know it is wrong but still they want to do it. A couple always have a choice for marraige to work, a way out of it is the least. Atheist, i can not blame them because they have no God, but for the rest of us who go to church at least once a week or a year that believe there is God, maybe we have to think twice, trice, or as many times as possible....if we believe we are christian we should act as what christian should do......peace smile.gif

poging_bagsik- 06-19-2008
QUOTE (madaku_mobutu @ October 24, 2006 12:44 pm)
Atheists still require the protection of their universal human rights anywhere, as do Catholics in an Islamic theocracy, dark-skinned Afros in an apartheid state, Jews in Nazi Germany & Muslims in a democracy.

If they believe in divorce, then let the State recognize it. If the Catholics don't, then let the State protect that option as well. If Catholics resort to divorce, then let them leave the Church's fold.

My conentionis: just because the Catholic majority doesn't believe in divorce doesn't mean the State must follow & neglect the right to the option for the minority. If because it has been legalized by the State, there is a mass departure of Catholics from the fold, then blame the Church's leadership, not the State which is accountable to all, not the majority.

That's all the more that the State must be secular & impartial to religion or the absence thereof.

the state officials will protect the interest of the majority if they don't then say goodbye to their political careers. If you don't want to spend the rest of your life with someone you don't love then don't get married plain and simple. With your reasoning your giving justice that psychopath should be allowed to murder freely. If they believed that killing people is good then the state should protect it also? Or how about the terrorist that believed killing infidels will secure their place in heaven should the state allows that kind of belief? If you want to keep divorce as an option get married outside the country.

Raider- 10-06-2008
Interesting issues.

Gigi- 10-09-2008
If the marriage between two people was not meant to be, no religion and no law will keep them together.

MissE- 10-14-2008
Payag na payag.. tambayan/th_033102bigtong_1_prv.gif

lolo- 10-15-2008
QUOTE (MissE @ October 14, 2008 09:34 pm)
Payag na payag.. tambayan/th_033102bigtong_1_prv.gif

aba! parang may didiborsyohin ka ah. tambayan/katawa.gif



semper meus dominus jesu- 02-14-2009
QUOTE (Gigi @ October 10, 2008 06:24 am)
If the marriage between two people was not meant to be, no religion and no law will keep them together.

kapag kinasal ka sa huwes .... that time both can decide .. pag kinasal ka sa simbahan ... that time three has to decide ... Man + Woman and GOD ...

(for sacramental marraige) Choose faithfully (not even wisely) ... if you deemed to feel you choose wrongly ... be not afraid ... because you have chosen him/her with GOD's consent.

Kaya it is very important to test your love ... do not do sacramental marriage coz of age, or just kasubuan na ... or bored ka lng in yourlife ...

If you think your partner is so keen for a seperation ... there is only one reason ... he/she does not know the level of complexity in sacramental marriage ... if she/he still leave you ... do not try to marry again ... as described by the pauline teachings.


otsoh- 03-11-2009
Kapag nananakit na ang isa sa asawa o masyado na violente, passes na kaya yan para hiwalayan ang isat-isa?

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